You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

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After being exhausted from trying and trying again, you leave without regrets or self-blame, realising that you deserve someone who puts the same effort into loving you as you do for them. Falling In Love The Third Time

For most of us, falling in love is a state of vulnerability when one feels emotionally enchanted by someone else. You want to be with the person, you want to see them always, you don’t want to hurt them in any way, and you might experience butterfly feelings in your belly. The first love is the love that feels right. It is what is closest to the fairy tale love stories you may have read or heard of. It is the love that appeals to what society thinks about love and you might do stupid things for its sake.You might say it is not necessary to fall in love up to three times. Of course, you will be able to cite people who are happy with the first person they ever fell in love with. Numerically, while you may have fallen with three exact individuals, more or less, you cannot fully understand the depths of what love is until you learn the lessons taught by these stages. After having realised what love might be from your first, and after having realised what love shouldn’t be from your second, your third is by far the best, as it’s the love that makes you believe in love.

The Twin Flame comes into our lives and often we don't even know it's love because...it's too easy. This is the love who helps us to accept ourselves just as we are because this is precisely what they do. This is the love that lasts. The Twin Flame is the love that comes into our lives when we least expect it and it comes to stay. Love is not that hard and complicated. The Twin Flame is the truest of what love truly stands for, and it completely changes our lives and how we think about love. The Specific Significance of the 3 Times We Fall in Love It’s been said that we really only fall in love with three people in our lifetime. It’s also believed that we need each of these loves for a different reason. The ultimate goal: to get to love number #3 (our twin flame). The Twin Flame comes into our lives and often we don't even know it's love because . . . it's too easy. This is the love who helps us to accept ourselves just as we are because this is precisely what they do.The third type of love comes out of nowhere. When you meet this person, you’d never consider that you’d end up with them. This is the love that breaks us. This time, we are trying to do things differently but we unconsciously unravel this love in the process. You genuinely fall in love this time with the expectation that we can make it work. This time, it’s not about how it appeals to society and family but rather we love our partner for who they are, irrespective of what society or family think. I don't have anything against loving ourselves. Of course, leaving some love for ourselves is very important for a balance love. But at the end, she's summarized that if you are not currently with your "twin flame" or you've decided to walk away from that that it's ok because you only truly need yourself and not another's love. In some degree that can be true, especially if the love you are gravitating towards to is toxic. However, let's not lead females to think that they will be fine without a man in their life. There's plenty of research/data that shows that couples that are married are happier people than those that are single. Why push the "love yourself more" theme, when it is proven that no man's an island? A girl can never have too much chocolate, and a guy who gets a girl chocolate obviously knows the way to her heart. 🍫

I was really on the fence about evaluating this book, on the one hand it has some EXTREMELY pertinent information that I have yet to see in other books, but I guess because of the nature of this particular subject and it's non-uniformity, every book will have information that's relatable and and not. p. 77 - "Because in this phase, our karmic relationship, we learn that we can't make something last that is supposed to end; we can't make something right that was never really meant to be." This third time is the love that lasts. You go about living your life normally, passively searching for someone who is different from the earlier loves you’ve had. Then, this love comes to change our lives forever.p. 90 Breaking our heart happens because love, by definition, requires you don't give up. But imagine, both soulmate and karma relationship are not Twin Flame. They are painful to give up. All of these loves have their reasons, and the lessons you learn through each phase will only help you grow.