TERNENCE Small Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel Ergonomic Design Male Cock Cage K045 (45mm/ M Size)

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If you masturbate alone every day, then you’ll probably want less sex. And when you do have sex, you might find be desensitized. You might even find it hard to cum. Long story short, you don’t want to go outside and have everyone looking at your cage underneath your trousers. Sleeker plastic cages will be better for this as they are easier to wear and move around in, and often less bulky under the pants. A poorly fitted cage won’t just be uncomfortable though. It could fall off completely, cause pain when you start getting hard, chafe and irritate your skin, and cause hygiene problems as the pee hole doesn’t line up properly with your urethra.

The measurements you’ll need are length and girth, plus the circumference from underneath your balls and over your penis. Write down these measurements while both flaccid and erect. The beginnings of an erection will feel more like a nice “erotic pain” rather than being unbearably painful. We’ve rounded up the latest and most excellent toys to hold your member captive for all your chastity fans. Are you feeling particularly adventurous? Explore our favorite extreme sex toys or even some of the best ball stretchers to pair up with your chastity cage. They’re designed to inhibit erection and orgasm and hand over control to the Key Holder in the ultimate form of orgasm control.

Michael Cole

When you try a new cage, pay attention to your body. Any discomfort or pain indicates a problem with the fit. Even if you don’t think of yourself as a submissive or a slave, I think any adventurous man should try this kind of domination play at least once. A snug-fitting metal cage will keep your penis from moving at all, whereas a looser plastic cage will allow for some movement and just prevent you from getting hard. While not all chastity devices list a gap size, it’s usually easy to see from pictures if a cage has a large or small gap, relative to the device's size itself. Estimates can be made from the product's total length.

It depends. If you want something to wear on and off during scenes, then a bit of discomfort could be acceptable if that’s what you and your partner want. The two most important measurements are the ring diameter, and the cage length. Diameter can also help with comfort but in the majority of cases if you choose the right length, the diameter will also be correct.You’ll learn patience, gratitude, and HOLY CRAP when that cage comes off the intensity of feeling has to be experienced to be believed! Best case scenario: you discover a whole new layer to your relationship and a whole new side of yourself.

Michael is the author of the Total Chastity Diary and has been in and out of chastity since his mid-thirties. He’s now 41. He lives and works in Boston, has a white-collar job, and is single by choice. The easiest solution is to use a little lube on the affected area if you feel rubbing and friction. This should make wearing your chastity cage a much more comfortable experience. Shaving your public hair can also help with this, and reduce the chance of pain for your hair being pulled by the cage. Sometimes you’ll also see a measurement for the gap between the ring and the body, which can be useful if you have particularly large or high hanging testicles, but most of the time you won’t need to measure for this part.Maybe all you need to be the next Mozart, Voltaire, or Tesla is to deny yourself release. You can take off the cage when you’re rich and famous. Place the tape measure on top of your penis against your pubic muscle. Wrap the tape measure all the way around your penis and testicles and note where it crosses over. Similar to the penis and scrotum diameter, place the tape measure on top of your penis, but this time at the widest part of your glans (the head of the penis). Wrap it all the way around and note where it crosses over. Long term, absolutely not. Discomfort will turn into pain, and pain can turn into a medical emergency faster than you’d think. If you want to wear a cage for longer than a few hours, comfort and safety are the priority.

Even for those who enjoy pain, a chastity cage shouldn’t hurt. If it does, it could cause lesions, blisters, or even permanent damage. Consider the temperature when measuring. If it’s cold your penis will be smaller. If it’s warm your penis will be larger. Perhaps most importantly, you’ll be compromising on comfort. When you’re going to be wearing this device for hours, days or even weeks at a time, why not take the extra care to make sure it’s comfortable?And if you answered yes, then… Well, damn. That’s hardcore, dude. You probably know more about this fetish than I do, so don’t listen to me. Personally, I get distracted by horniness pretty often. I still manage to get my work done on time, but it’s more difficult for some guys. Hold your flaccid penis in your hand at a 90 degree angle from your body (pointing straight away from you). Place the end of the tape measure against your pubic muscle, and lay it flat along the length of your penis. They can be used short-term until you’ve earned your way out or as part of a long term BDSM relationship in which you hand over the keys to someone else.