Deluxe Silicone Butt Plug Amateur (Large, Ø 40 mm), Anal-Plug with Foot

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Take a deep breath and allow him to enter slowly, try and it relax it’s natural for your body to push against this as if your having a poo as your bum is full of nerve endings.

Dont use the plug for too long before sex - they can cause some discomfort in and of themselves which leads to slight tenderness, therefore tensing/clenching which in turn leads to more tenderness and repeats the cycle. I suppose the hope is that with enough slow and gentle at the start you will be better prepared for the fast and exciting part at the end? I'm not advocating no lube, just making use of my own naturally produced + saliva but yes, I did mean a douche.

I like one finger but not more - their combined shape is lumpy in cross-section rather than circular - nothing to do with the size as a cock is more comfortable! Norma might mean using a douche - I have done this occasionally, but usually don't bother with more than showering. There is a whole lot of misinformation about anal and its "gasps" dangers, lengthy prep needed, practice, training etc. I will try your other suggestions although I need to find a butt plug that looks more "feminine" than the ones I have seen. We dont usually bother with fingers, but what position are you using as some make for a more painful (and sore after) experience than others?

Just a thought - the thing about butt plugs is that the neck is usually quite slender, to allow for a more comfortable wearing experience. I would limit the amount of time - even to a minute or 2, until you really get the hang of relaxing and not suffering any unpleasant after effects. I feel we need a topic "Bumsex for amateurs" as some of you seem way beyond anything I plan to experiment with! I think it's something related to a more sustained stretch, than stretch/relax/stretch that makes it more comfortable if you see what I mean?i'm also a fan of a bit of girth - going back to fingers, one is unpleasant, two is much better but three and it starts to get really good. However, the necks of plugs are usually quite slim so you might need a dildo that is a bit thicker to prepare even more. Hands and knees is probably the most painful entry wise and ends up with the most soreness afterwards if you continue in that position.