Explicit Erotic Sex Stories (4 Books in 1): The best collection of stories to explore your sexual fantasies and apply them with your partner or lover!

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One other general rule of thumb Wise found is that while men tend toward more visually-oriented fantasies centered around preferred body parts, women tend to focus on overall scenarios. However, it's impossible to distill the endless possibilities of human sexuality into neat categories. Which is why you also shouldn't get discouraged or ashamed if none of these common fantasies do it for you.

In the end, what you do with your erotic imagination is up to you. You can share it if you'd like — or keep it all to yourself. That’s what’s so great about sexual fantasies you cut from your own cloth: They’re all yours, and no one else's. Non- monogamy, partner sharing. These fantasies involve consensual non-monogamy: mate swapping, watching one’s partner with someone else, and polyamory, emotional as well as sexual relationships with more than one partner. More than two-thirds of Lehmiller’s participants reported such fantasies at least occasionally. Some other sexual fantasies for women would involve role playing where there are a doctor and a patient, teacher, and a student, a boss, and employee, or her dream character from one of her romance novels.Blair even recommends purposefully scheduling these more exploratory kind of session and making them habitual. So maybe it can be something you add to your nightly ritual before bed: Brush your teeth, do the skincare routine, put on some pajamas, then let your mind wander as you touch yourself. Create a safe space in your mind Sexy trips. We try to steal nights away. Even just one night in a hotel, an AirBnB, or a bed and breakfast can be a great way to create space to just be together and explore. Jess O'Reilly is a sex educator, author of The New Sex Bible, and Astroglide's resident sexologist. She explained that through each of these fantasy categories you can help identify the specific core erotic feelings that get you into a heightened state of arousal. Multiple partners. This is Americans’ top erotic daydream. Almost everyone reported having it—87 percent of the women, 95 percent of the men. The top multi-partner fantasy involved threesomes, with moresomes not far behind. Many people fantasized of many men and women playing together (swinging, orgies), while others focused on one person having sex with many others (gangbangs). It's perfectly healthy to role play or try new things in bed; it can be a great way for couples to spice up their sex life. But certain fantasies may be more difficult to talk to your partner about than others, such as ones that involve group sex, or getting busy with someone else. It's also important to know that imagining yourself enjoying oral sex with that friendly barista doesn't necessarily mean that you're looking to cheat or in you're in the throes of an emotional affair.

You don't have to stop playing make-believe when you grow up. Role-playing means acting out a sexual fantasy with your partner(s), either once or as part of an ongoing fantasy. While it can be a fetish or kink within itself, it's also a healthy way to act out other fantasies. For instance, if you have a medical fantasy and are aroused by doctors, you probably don't actually want your doctor to get sexy with you, because that would be creepy and abusive. The beauty of role-playing is that you can have your partner dress up as a doctor and indulge your fantasy consensually in your own home. 3. Foot Fetish If you get turned on by the thought of Ryan Gosling in a gimp suit or sexually excited by the idea of smearing yourself in chocolate spread (but don't want to actually do it and risk ruining your bedsheets), you're not strange, you're simply indulging in a sexual fantasy. We all do it from time to time and for some of us using our imagination is an integral aspect of sex. So how do you get involved, what's the best sexual fantasy to start with and what if you're shy about revealing your secret desires to your partner? Awaken your sexual desires by trying out some of the most common female fantasies. Surprise him and reveal him what you'd really love to try in bed tonight!Everyone has sexual fantasies and desires. It is a normal and natural part of life. What isn’t normal, is the fact that many people who are committed to each other in a relationship don’t share their sexual fantasies with each other. Contrary to the previous sexual fantasy women have, this one involves them wanting to be punished, held captive, and used. As much as they want to be saved, they also want to have no control, freedom, and to have to do whatever they are told to do. 6) Sex tape percent of women fantasize about having sex with acquaintances, reports the Journal of Sexual Medicine. But if your boss, your friend's husband, or your smokin' neighbor suddenly makes an appearance in one of your fantasies, don't freak out.